general info
this is an independent and heavily private portrayal of emmrich volkarin of bioware's dragon age franchise. while some verses are extremely canon divergent or total aus, this blog is canon compliant. if that gets your panties in a twist, i'm not the emmrich for you. i see no need to rewrite a character who already fits into pre-established canon just fine. unless for a plotted au of canon events, feel free to assume emmrich's story plays out the way put forth in veilguard, because it does.
blog etiquette
the usual common sense rules apply: don't be racist / homophobic / transphobic / bigoted / antisemetic. don't ship minors with adults. i'm very liberal with the block button and can and will cultivate my space as i see fit. bad vibes have no place on this blog and i don't tolerate them. i keep this space drama free and it is strictly for playing paper dolls on the internet, because i am too old and too tired to put up with juvenile bullshit. handle your shit like adults.
blog themes
this blog contains dark themes due to the nature of dragon age canon and there maybe triggering content present, which includes but is not limited to: death. body horror. canon-typical violence. discussion of religious trauma (especially concerning southern thedas). discussion of death and funerary practices. skeletal imagery. discussions of mental illness and trauma. i tag for most of these things (using the format trigger cw) with the exception of death practices and skeletal imagery, as those are so baked into emmrich's character that if those are upsetting to you emmrich is definitely not a character you need to interact with.
characterization
i'm not here for the edgy emmrich takes, and if fanonization of emmrich is what you're looking for, this blog is not a safe haven for you. i choose to write the emmrich found in canon, who may have a (very strong) vengeful streak, but chooses to be, above all, kind and compassionate, and whose fears stem from unresolved childhood trauma. i also operate under the assumption that he's autistic, and that he does have panic attacks, though less frequently than when he was younger, both of which have ample canon evidence. there's no sex god, possessive, intentionally creepy emmrich here, instead it's a man who is lonely, looking for his person, terrified of his own mortality, and who just happens to fuck. gird thy loins for whimsical hot takes and naivety to the world around him. as a notice for anyone making a sour face: i also pull from tevinter nights, the flame eternal, and his episode of the podcast, for characterization. emmrich's mortal path / the resurrection of manfred is also his default state on this blog post-game.
formatting
my formatting is incredibly simple, and typically only consists of italics, bolds, touches of colored text (dark enough for white backgrounds, light enough for dark backgrounds), and small text. sometimes i use icons, most of the time i don't, because making icons from the approximately 45883475934854 screencaps i have of this man is laborous and time consuming. even my icons are simple, sorry. i don't care what kind of formatting you do, as long as there aren't several spaces between words, because that makes it difficult to read for me.
reblogging
please reblog from the source. i take the time to reblog / find the source, so that you can also reblog from it, instead of me. listen, i generally won't unfollow over it unless you do it consistently without ever really interacting? but it is annoying and at this point generally standard practice to just...reblog from the source. so do that. save my notifications, please, and i'll do my part in saving yours. my gifsets and edits are generally for my own amusement / enrichment or because i want to write a bunch of meta no one but me cares about in the tags, but if it's something that involves your character or we're frequent writing partners (or, as i like to call them, friends), i don't mind if you want to put those gifsets / edits on your blog, too. if you're unsure, just ask. more than likely i'm going to say yes.
reply speed & length
i am slow. listen, i am so slow. this blog is not my main blog, and just in general my brain's a bag of cats on a good day. i promise you i'm not ignoring the reply sitting in my drafts (unless tumblr's being fucky and i didn't get a notif), i'm just slow. it's something i'm actively working on but life is...well. life. if it's been a while and you're worried i might otherwise have not seen it, by all means, please shoot me an im and i'll give you an update on whether i have it or not. but please be patient, i'll absolutely get you a reply as soon as i have the brain power to do so. lengthwise i prefer multi-para and novella; this is a me thing, not a you thing, and if you ever get a reply from me that's like 1k words, for the love of god never feel the need to match it. i just get carried away setting up a metaphorical punchline sometimes. as long as we yes, and? it along to give me something to work with, we're golden.
interaction
memes are by far the simplest way to interact, and you're always welcome to send as many as your heart desires, and to always and forever continue those as threads if you want. i will literally never, ever be annoyed if you do that. i, myself, tend to be a weirdo and send, like, three from a meme at a time sometimes to give you options. never feel obligated to answer all of them: answer one, answer all three, delete them all (though if you're doing that we may not be a good fit). i don't care. i will also occasionally continue answered asks as threads. i do, however, enjoy the shit out of plotting (even if it's a barebones what if? so we know where we want this bus to go), so for more detailed interactions hashing things out over im is best. i also have an interest tracker linked on my pinned post so you can give me some info on what kind of stuff you're looking to do.
manfred
manfred is something of a secondary character / npc on this blog (going through his own narrative arc in various verses), and while i don't, like, put out starter calls for him specifically usually you are always welcome to send memes for him, instead of emmrich, because sometimes it's just fun to write manfred doing manfred things. he's just so intrinsically tied to emmrich it's hard to have one without the other, so i push him around on the board as needed. and, obviously, considering emmrich's possible lichdom, there are verses where manfred is not present.
nsfw
nsfw stuff will happen on this blog. oftentimes it's of the blood and guts variety, but sometimes it's of the sex variety, and i don't pigeonhole it strictly for sunday because i go where the muse drives the bus. however, anything of the spicier variety will be under a cut and tagged as
nsft to spare your dashes in public. i also have a spicy sideblog for images and such at
@barebackboned (yeah, yeah, i know) if that's your thing. one day i'll remember to use it. we don't have to have a ship for you to send things in from memes, but i do retain the right to not answer those things if i'm just not feeling it.
shipping
i ship chemistry, fullstop. i have to feel like a character is going to be a good fit for emmrich and what he's looking for in someone? but i also mean i have to feel like we, the muns, can get along and talk about this stuff and develop it outside of strictly ic threads. i wanna talk about the ship. make up dumb what ifs about the ship. create incredibly mundane and specific headcanons for the ship. there will be no shallow ships here, i'm gonna yell about it with my whole damn chest. also, and this is the biggest thing outside of chemistry: not every romance is going to be exactly like canon. not every rook will receive the cookie cutter game scenario as presented in canon in this respect, because i feel like different characters should take a different path to the bone zone. also, as such, i'm limiting how many rooks i'm willing to ship with, because at some point it stops being fair to both of us, especially if a rook already has a ship or two with another emmrich. i won't put a specific number on that (yet), so if you think there's chemistry by all means, shoot your shot, come talk to me about it. but be aware i'm also very keen on exploring relationships outside the rook / companion set up, and don't plan on shipping with every rook no matter who was romanced in game. final note: if it was emmrich that was romanced, i'm still gonna require chemistry and some platonic build up, to get a feel for how that character ticks. just as a head's up. there's no autoshipping here at all.
following
i can be picky about who i follow, this is very true. mostly this is because, again, this is not my main blog and i have to curate what i take on so i don't get overwhelmed. my criteria is fairly simple: be 21+ and have that listed somewhere in your info. have info about your character, especially your ocs (otherwise how can i know what i'm following?) because i read all of that before i ever hit that follow button. don't be gross, which you would think would be obvious and you would, in fact, be wrong. if you're heavily veilguard-critical and don't tag it, we're especially not gonna work. i'm not writing a thesis on why everything is bad when i want to shitpost on my blog about my silly little necromantic ray of sunshine.
unfollowing
i unfollow for a few different reasons: one, we've been mutuals for a while and there's been no interaction despite me reaching out. two, we just don't jive - it happens, there's nothing personal, and you can't make it work with everyone but i hope you have fun with your blorbo. three, you've been problematic in some way. four, you've gone inactive for several months. like, that's it. that's all. i'm an asshole, but i'm not that kind of asshole, i know how to use postblock and blacklist as needed, and if someone really harshes my vibe, i just soft / block and go on about my day. it's generally nothing personal.
credits
all edits, gifsets, screencaps, and captures i personally post are made by me. psd is also mine. any templates used will have the template linked in the body of the post it's present in. and last, but not least, this rules / info site is handcoded by yours truly, using notepad and the extremis iron man legends action figure as a rubberduck. he doubles sometimes as a fountain pen stand. pretty sure he hates his life but that's none of my business.